If you saw this girl, would you find her intimidating?
If you said no, you’re lying to two people – me and yourself. There’s no need for bravado She is as close to a 10 as it gets. Wars are fought over women who look like her.
When you start out in the game, approaching nearly any girl takes a bit of courage, which is why most men cannot do sober approaches. Approaching a chick like her, even if you’ve been at this for a while, is going to give you a bit of an adrenaline rush. How do you overcome your approach anxiety?
It is easy, and I will tell you why:
The chick you think is way too hot to approach is with some guy. If you saw that guy, you would not be all that impressed.
Seriously. Look around. Haven’t you ever seen a really hot girl with a guy and thought, “What’s she doing with him?”
You probably assumed the guy had a lot of money or something. It’s natural to have a hater’s response. “She’s a gold digger,” or to think like a loser, “If I were rich, then I’d get a girl like her!”
There are entire sites devoted to hating on guys who are with hot chicks. Just check out “The Dirty” or “Hot Chicks With Douchebags.”
The truth is that the guy isn’t nearly as special as you think he is. He doesn’t have a hidden billion dollar trust account. He just made the approach.
Here is that girl’s boyfriend:
It seems they’ve been together for a while, although even if this is a hoax, the point stands: For every chick you are too afraid to approach, there is a girl dating a guy you wouldn’t be impressed with.
So what’s stopping you from being the guy that some jealous hater scratches his head at and thinks, “What’s she doing with him?”
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