Find fault in every girl. The pretty blonde with a great smile and huge tits? Her feet are big. The brunette with a pedicure is probably a redneck. Spare yourself the possibility of being rejected by lying to yourself, “None of these girls are good enough. I’ll just wait until someone who meets my standards walks in.”
Stand in a corner of the bar. Women who see you will wonder, “Who is that sexy mystery man standing alone?” They won’t think that a guy (or, even better, a group of guys) standing on the outside looking in is pathetic.
Wait for a girl to give you permission before approaching her. Agonize over whether she is twirling her hair because she is flirting with you or because really getting in her eyes.
Overthink and analyze everything. Even though there are 52 Fridays in a year and you will probably be going out for 10 years, going out is a super serious event. Meeting women deserves all of the seriousness of thought that investing in the stock market or buying your first home requires. Be sure to constantly furrow your brow as you analyze the night’s data. Get really angry if something goes wrong.
Be fat. You always see “PUAs” wearing shiny shirts with the hottest women, right? Only losers who haven’t read the latest PUA Action Alert go to the gym, eat clean foods, and juice.
Treat venue selection like a committee meeting. Argue with 3 other guys about venue. Drag this out as long as possible. “Let’s have another beer while we decide.” Throwing good money after bad has always been a viable business strategy and so it makes total sense to spend more time at a bar everyone agrees sucks.
Don’t roll solo/Always roll out in big groups. Only losers go out alone. A girl might ask you, “Where are your friends?” Having the ability to move to a new bar that better suits you is overrated. It makes far more sense to argue with 3 other guys over the next venue to hit up.
Don’t make guy friends. Even though you are at the same bar with the same phone doing the same thing as thousands of other people, tell yourself that you are better than they are. They are losers. You are too fucking cool. That guy couldn’t possibly be interesting, even though by being in the same place and same time as you, you are actually that guy.
Do not make eye contact. Only creeps look into another person’s eyes.
Do not be the kind a man a woman would be proud to have her friends see her with. Having a nice haircut, wearing clean clothes, and looking fresh? That’s for homos. You’ll wear your Polo shirt and cargo shorts. Like a boss.
Follow the above 10 tips and I guarantee that you won’t get laid.
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Rolling solo. I’ve rolled solo FUCKING ALWAYS. I love it. I can meet up with my friends at the bar, and if it sucks I can just bounce and leave those that don’t wanna come along. And if a ONS is happening, the logistics are solid, 0 responsibility to drive anybody else home.
Something I want to try more. Even the best friends in most circumstances can be fucking horrible to be out with at the bar. Plus it encourages you to be more social in general, not just focused on your friends and the approaches.
How do you roll solo anyways? Never done it before and never known anyone who has either.
I can’t tell if this is a serious question or not.
It’s serious but the answer below this goes a long way to understanding WHY it would appear to be sarcastic. I’m the last dude who would have a ONS (yes the irony of saying that while reading this site isn’t lost) so it’s not like that’s my aim when I go out. I just want to go out to have fun and meet people. I find more value in that then meeting a girl and taking her home to bang her.
Step 1. Get ready to go out.
Step 2. Go to a bar where you won’t know anyone. Don’t tell your friends where you’re going.
Step 3. Walk in alone.
Step 4. Pick up girls. Be careful you don’t make any guys overly mad as you won’t have friends there to watch your back.
Step 5. Take girl home.
I’ve never had a one night stand. I’ve come close, but it’s never really happened. Many PUA/game/red pill advocates would call me a pussy for this. They’d question my game. In fact, it’s just a preference. This could change, I wouldn’t think any less of myself, it’s just how I live my life at the moment.
If you want to go out and have fun, do so. The people that are the most fun to be around, are the people that are the most comfortable with themselves. I realized long ago, WAY before I discovered game and attempted to swallow the red pill, that when I’d go to dinner or see a movie by myself (usually by circumstance, but sometimes just at random) and then describe this to a friend, that this was looked upon as weird by others.
I always questioned why they thought it was weird, because even though sometimes I’d feel a little odd, I usually would settle into it fine. Going out into the world by yourself can be less fun than doing it with friends, but if you’re open to new experiences, new people, and making your own social situation, you would be surprised how different and relaxing it can be.
The people that are most comfortable with themselves, and can be completely open and transparent about their lives, their motivations, their weaknesses, etc…those are the strongest people that many of us look up to without realizing the reason truly why we do.
@AO
“Going out into the world by yourself can be less fun than doing it with friends, but if you’re open to new experiences, new people, and making your own social situation, you would be surprised how different and relaxing it can be.
The people that are most comfortable with themselves, and can be completely open and transparent about their lives, their motivations, their weaknesses, etc…those are the strongest people that many of us look up to without realizing the reason truly why we do.”
love this.
Good post! A few more…
11. Have bad body language. Slump, look around nervously, touch your face a lot.
12. Be really boring. Just simply have nothing interesting to talk about. When a girl asks what you do (unlikely you’ll ever get to that stage but still) tell her you sit behind a desk, on a computer all day.
13. Refuse to learn game. That’s only for men who manipulate and are mean to women. Remember that game doesn’t work: http://3rdmilleniummen.wordpress.com/2012/09/01/game-doesnt-work/
14. Be a nice guy. Allow yourself to be walked all over by women. Remember, being their friend is far greater than being a potential romantic interest.
i gotta practice rolling solo.
Yes, you do. A large part of your personal challenges is being comfortable and confident in yourself, much like many.
exactly. being uncomfortable rolling solo at bars or clubs betrays an inner shame that i have not overcome yet.
I have always preferred solo. My friends just weigh me down with thier whining and sniveling and bullshit.
Look, rolling solo is good, don’t stop doing it but for god’s sakes man, get some better friends.
+1
What’s wrong with Polos?
Polos are appropriate in certain situations. Most bar situations, not so much. It’s very much freshman in college attire when you look at the whole outfit he described. It’s just like board shorts, a t-shirt, and sandals aren’t really good bar attire in most areas, but locally, because I live right near the beach, it’s not only acceptable, but oftentimes the most appropriate for picking up the girls locally. It’s an exception to the rule. He just stated a generalization. Generally, it’s true.
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There is some value in finding fault with every girl, just not in that context. Can help a man if he’s having trouble maintaining his inner frame. Just a bandaid fix though.
There’s a lot of value in looking for every fault in a girl when you’re real drunk. Don’t go hogging by “accident” with the excuse of being drunk.
Hah, well yes, that’s true as well. Once you become indoctrinated to the manosphere to a certain extent it becomes all too easy to see their flaws regardless of your level of intoxication.
if you want to find a flaw in a girl, look at her weird elbow skin, all wrinkled and dry.
or look at her nostrils.
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This is an awesome list. Oftentimes looking at what ISN’T working is a good way to get on the right track.
well said badger. it’s like saying, sometimes the best way to define something is by saying what it’s not.
“Stand in a corner of the bar. Women who see you will wonder, “Who is that sexy mystery man standing alone?” They won’t think that a guy (or, even better, a group of guys) standing on the outside looking in is pathetic.”
Aunt Giggles peddles this advice without irony to guys who don’t want to take on a socially “out” persona. The “brooding stranger” shtick is just not successful, way less successful than opening even a small amount of girls.
You can be successful without being the life of the party, but you have to at least look like you are there to _do_ something.
I used to fail on the first one a lot. I would label a girl a dirty slut not worth pursuing. Once my notch count increased and I realized that almost all girls are dirty sluts waiting for you to push their sexual boundaries, I got over it. I think it’s a much healthier view in the long run. It’s still the best to “defile” a good girl.