What color are your barista’s eyes? You probably do not make eye contact with people, and it’s costing you opportunities.
Making eye contact will teach you a lot about yourself and about others. The Power of Eye Contact.
If a girl looks down ground, she views herself as lower status than you. Do not neg or be cocky to a girl who looks down. She is already feeling insecure and you will sabotage the exchange if you go on strong. Go direct with a simple, “Hi.”
Girls who look to the side after making eye contact view you as an equal or an inferior. Run hard game on girls who look at you sideways. Use indirect openings, negs, etc.
If you look down, it means you’re submissive. If you look down after making eye contact with a woman, you have subconsciously told her that you’re a worm. You’ve lost the game.
Girls seem to enjoy getting into staring contests. Hold the gaze and then smirk. If she smiles back it means she is mirroring you reflexively. Call her over to you.
If you want to fuck with someone’s head, stare at her forehead. This is called the “power stare” and it’s extremely effective on women you meet out and it works in the workplace too.
If you don’t really care about your job and want to get out of the office, look down after your boss chews your ass. He will subconsciously process the eye movement as a sign of victory.
If you care about your career, make eye contact and hold it. To avoid a power contest that you are sure to lose (but you don’t want to submit either), divert your attention to something on your boss’s desk. Then say, “I never noticed _______ about ________ before.”
The only time I compliment a woman is when I compliment her eyes. But don’t just say, “You have purty eyes.”
Say, “You have an intense gaze. Do men sometimes find that intimidating?” Then start talking about how infrequently people make eye contact. If you say something like, “People spend too much time looking at their iPhones,” she is less likely to answer texts while you’re talking to her.
Women are addicted to eye contact. If you frame the conversation by talking about her eyes, you will make a deeper connection with her.
All women like to believe that their eye color changes. This is especially true of girls with green eyes. If a woman has green eyes, say, “What color does your eyes change to in the sun?”
A quick way to learn how to make better eye contact is to practice on baristas, cashiers, and clerks. Imagine you are taking a quiz tomorrow. The quiz will ask you the eye color of 10 people you interacted with the day before.
When buying coffee, ask yourself, “What color was the barista’s eyes?”
Then find out your co-workers’ eye colors.
If you can’t say what color a person’s eyes are, then you’ve failed the quiz.
Then move on to advantaged stuff like eye contact game.
Bonus tip: Your eyes will follow your chin. If you want to maintain good eye contact, keep your chin up.