The Winning Question

Most guys you’ll encounter are losers. If the vast majority of men dropped dead, it would no loss to me or society writ large.

Men aren’t losers for lack of knowledge. We aren’t living in a jungle where every path is uncut. There are several proven success road maps.

Men are losers because they refuse to ask themselves the single most important question a man can ask.

It’s a question that men aren’t allowed to ask.

It’s a question that hurts feelings – which feminized Western men seem to have a lot of.

It’s a question we won’t ask because it cuts through all of the bullshit lies we tell ourselves.

It’s a question that applies to everything we do.

It’s a question we can’t hide from.

Tonight when you’re out, and a girl who is so hot that you stop in your track walks in, ask yourself: Am I being a pussy?

If you don’t approach, it’s because you’re a pussy.

When you’re at the gym and your muscles start to burn, before you quit the set, as yourself: Am I being a pussy?

If you stop the set, it’s because you’re a pussy.

When your girl is acting up and you wonder if you should make her cry, ask yourself: Am I being a pussy?

If you don’t put her in check, it’s because you’re a pussy.

When you’ve responded to dozens of job openings, ask yourself: Am I being a pussy?

 

If you don’t put on your suit, walk to businesses, and talk to hundreds of prospects, it’s because you’re a pussy.

When life isn’t going the way you want it, ask yourself: Am I being a pussy?

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20 comments on “The Winning Question

  1. Real talk.

  2. udying on said:

    Get busy living or get busy dying…

  3. Chi_Banger on said:

    Mantra Worthy.

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  5. The Chrome Microphone on said:

    Brilliant post.

  6. Wesley Dabney on said:

    this question gets to the core of being alpha. for the past 30 odd years, women have gone through an indoctrination to “man up” (masculine) ie.. don’t be a pussy while men have been told to be sensitive (feminine).
    look at most modern movies for example. take Rio, the kids movie about birds. both the main female bird and human were strong and the male bird and human were weak and ineffectual. this message is pounded in to several generations of boys and girls and viola… we invert the masculine and feminine paradigm.
    how sublime that a simple question asked to yourself throughout the day could reverse the paradigm back to its natural state.
    as Bono would say “fookn brilliant”.

  7. Jason on said:

    Damn Danger you didn’t have to say it like that! I’m a human being and deserve respect! Wait a sec…. (Am I being a pussy?) Hmmm…on second though Danger thanks for putting your foot on my neck. Now I’m going to go and put my foot up this bitches ass. She knows I only like mustard on my burger….

    LOL! Seriously, great post, as always.

  8. bravo.

  9. aneroidocean on said:

    “We’re dicks! We’re reckless, arrogant, stupid dicks. And the Film Actors Guild are pussies. And Kim Jong Il is an asshole. Pussies don’t like dicks, because pussies get fucked by dicks. But dicks also fuck assholes: assholes who just want to shit on everything. Pussies may think they can deal with assholes their way. But the only thing that can fuck an asshole is a dick, with some balls. The problem with dicks is: they fuck too much or fuck when it isn’t appropriate — and it takes a pussy to show them that. But sometimes, pussies can be so full of shit that they become assholes themselves… because pussies are an inch and half away from ass holes. I don’t know much about this crazy, crazy world, but I do know this: If you don’t let us fuck this asshole, we’re going to have our dicks and pussies all covered in shit!”

    -Team America: World Police

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  11. gaius mucius on said:

    only pussies die

  12. fred on said:

    am I being a pussy?

    be right back tattoing that to my wrist

  13. I think you’ve just settled the whole Alpha/Beta debate with this. It’s not about the action so much as about the intent. Do you massage your girlfriends feet because you just like doing it or are you seeking approval/hoping your building equity with her? Intent matters

  14. demetrius on said:

    every time I come on this blog there is always something that wakes me up and remind me of the dumb shit I do.
    Thanks a lot man your stuff really helps… just jumped to my n.1 blog

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  16. carioca on said:

    Great post.
    You´re a f philosopher.
    All I have to say is thank you.

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  20. rivsdiary on said:

    thank you. i have been a real pussy for over a week now. i can’t waste time like this.