There was an art exhibit in town that a girl wanted to see. As a man of refined tastes, I agreed to accompany her.

When we arrived, her face sank. The long line to purchase tickets demoralized her.

“Oh, no, babe, we don’t wait in lines. I’m a member of MOMA.” Her face said, “Yeah, right, douche bag” look.

I walked through the entrance, waving her to follow me. We went directly to the membership desk, got our tickets, and then got to skip a second line (the line to see the paintings.)

I was shooting loads inside of her less than a half-hour after the exhibit ended.

That’s one of many examples of lifestyle game in action.

Here is the apex:

 

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Experience has shown me that dating is largely a waste of time. My close rate when meeting a girl at a bar is high. My close rate from dating is low. What’s up with that?

I recently figured out why dating is futile.

As a man, what are you thinking about when going on a date? You take a shower, wash your balls, and brush your teeth. You’re hoping the girl likes you enough that you’ll be able to put your dick inside of her.

You’re not expecting any “wow” factor. You don’t expect a woman to charm you or show how awesome she is. Unless she’s an insufferable bitch (and even then, if she’s hot, no big deal), you’d have sex with her at the end of the date.

When a woman goes on a date, she is looking for something serious. She is not looking to hook up. She is looking to get to know a guy. She is also expecting to be wowed.

It sucks when a woman wants to get to know a man before sleeping with him. First, do you want to get to know her? How many women are interesting? How many women have you met that you’d talk to even if there were no chance of fucking her?

Even guys who claim to have platonic female friends don’t have fat platonic female friends. Be honest with yourselves. Women are not interesting. Like my dog, women are cute and adorable and funny when they lash out. (Unlike my dog, women are disloyal.)

When you show up for a date, you must show some uninteresting broad why you’re interesting. You’re also forced to listen to her stupid thoughts.

If you are a man of accomplishment and learning, your grimaces will be obvious.

When a woman is on a date, she expects a wow factor. Women want magic. They want sparks. They want chemistry.

Genuine chemistry is amazing because it’s rare. How many women would you need to meet before feeling electricity flowing through your body? Where you feel tingles? Of the several hundreds of women I’ve met, I’ve had chemistry with maybe 5.

Dating is thus a fool’s mission. For one, you’re expected to entertain an inferior. (And if you are not superior to nearly every woman you’ve ever met, you do not deserve to call yourself a man.) For two, the odds of having chemistry are low.

When seasoned vets tell you young guys to stop dating, it’s not because we’re jaded. It’s because we know, from experience, that there are better ways to lay women.

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Yesterday’s post was mostly a joke. It was true that a girl who hangs around the crew e-mailed me as part of a recipe exchange. It was also true that receiving (and replying) to the email was neither alpha or beta. Why would it matter to me if a girl viewed me as a guy who likes to cook, or as a guy it’d be cool to swap recipes with?

I can go from demanding a woman let my seed soak her panties and run down her leg to cooking dinner and playing kitchen bitch for friends, because cooking is just another aspect of the lifestyle.

A lifestyle is pleasurable, in and of itself.

Yesterday’s dinner, which I prepared for six of us, contained 14 ingredients and about a dozen different spices. My friend opened up two bottles of Central Coast wine that he bought during a wine tasting. We all had mochi from the Japanese market for dessert.

Each week I cook something exotic. I’m always on the look out for new ways of preparing food.

I cook not only because food is awesome, but because I am humbled by my fantastic friends. Cooking for them would be pleasure enough.

The food was spectacular, and the company was good. I didn’t even fuck and yet fell asleep happy.

Far too many guys have the conception of a player as a man who lives alone, has no friends, and whose sole existence is chasing pussy. Yet consider the roots of the lone wolf metaphor.

A wolf doesn’t wander alone because it wants to. A wolf wanders alone because it has grown old and useless to the pack. “Man is an social animal,” Aristotle correctly noted thousands of years ago. A lone wolf is a reject.

Meeting women is less than 10% of my week, and 25% of my weekend. Because I spend so little time trying to meet women, and so much more time building an awesome lifestyle, I actually meet and fuck hotter women than most guys who obsess about game.

A lifestyle attracts pussy.

You and a girl are vibing each other. You say, “Let’s go somewhere quiet, where we can talk.” She knows you want to fuck, and she wants to get fucked.

“OK, sounds great,” she says. “But my roommates have out-of-town guests.”

Now what?

If you’re a guy who focusing only on running game, you probably have a crappy apartment. It’s probably poorly decorated, and does not make a girl feel comfortable. You likely do not have a bar stocked with tonic, soda water, voka, gin, a martini shaker, and several different wines. (And you probably don’t have cool stories about the vineyards you purchased the wine from, during a wine tasting trip.)

You get the cool apartment and the good liquors by building your lifestyle on Monday through Friday (and often through Saturday, and sometimes Saturday and Sunday). When you have the lifestyle, the pussy follows.

Once I met a girl from an online dating site. We had exchanged racy texts, and I knew she wanted to fuck. She texted me when she was in town. (She was almost certainly cheating on her husband.)

The friend I was house sitting for was a little salty. Logistics challenge, right?

Nope. I booked a hotel, fucked her thrice, tied her hands up with the bath robe’s belt, came inside of her, and left bruises on her neck.

If I hadn’t been able to afford the hotel, I would have missed out on some of the best pussy I’ve had.

A good friend of mine had been out of the game for almost a decade. He had a rough break-up. But while in a relationship, he build an amazing lifestyle for himself.

He started off a little groggy. He had taken girls out to dinner. (!) He wasn’t getting anywhere near the quality of girls he deserved.

He learned a little game, stopped buying dinners, and started getting more aggressive (even choking girls in public). With less than six months of learning game, he pulled the hottest pussy of his life.

If my friend had spent more time learning game rather than building a lifestyle, he wouldn’t be pulling the caliber of women he pulls. A woman his attracted to game, but a hot woman finds the lifestyle irresistible.

A 7 is going to be amenable to tight game alone. But it’s simply a lie that 8′s and 9′s are ending up with average-income earning men who have tight game. If you do not have an exceptional lifestyle, you will not regularly pull 8′s, and you will probably never pull a 9.

Sure, guys on the Internet brag about pulling 8′s and 9′s. Ask to see pictures of girls they’ve boned. Good luck getting proof.

A man should spend far more time building a lifestyle than in learning game. Build the lifestyle first, as the lifestyle is the strongest foundation for game.

Yes, it’s crucial that a man learn game at a young age. He needs to learn enough game to avoid getting trapped in a long-term relationship. He needs to learn enough game to pull quality ass. A man who can’t pull at will is more likely to get trapped in a relationship, since he’ll be afraid. “What if I never find anyone better?” Or worse, “What if I can’t find anyone.”

As a man, however, you should be far more concerned with building your career, building your body, filling your mind with knowledge, and creating lasting memories than you should be with learning game.

The lifestyle is better than the game.

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A girl sent me the following e-mail:

We are participating in a collective, constructive, and TASTY experiment. As such, you have been invited to be part of a recipe exchange concept. We hope you will participate. We have picked those we think would make this fun.

Please send a recipe to the person whose name is in position 1 (even if you don’t know him/her) and it should be something quick, easy and without rare ingredients. Actually, the best one is the one you know in your head and can type right now. Don’t agonize over it; it is one you make when you are short of time.

After you’ve sent the recipe to the person in position 1 below and only to that person, copy this letter into a new email, move my name to position 1 and put your name in position 2. Only my and your name should show when you send your email. Send to 20 friends BCC (blind copy).  You should receive 36 recipes. It’s fun to see where they come from! Seldom does anyone drop out because we all need new ideas. The turnaround is fast as there are only 2 names on the list and you only have to do it once.

I await your adjudication.

(No, it’s not a chain letter or otherwise a scam.)

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