Choke Game: The Theoretical Justification

Samantha was a petite school teacher with two master’s degrees, small wrists and skinny ankles, and trusting blue eyes. Friends and family universally described Samantha as delicate.

She was on her knees, bent over the couch. Her hands were tied behind her back with my black canvass d-ring belt. My dick was slammed inside her, as I imagined splitting her in half. I grabbed her soft red hair back with my left hand, twisting her head to the side. I began choking her with my right.

She had a large living room mirror. When I caught a glimpse us, I had an out of body experience.

She moaned softly as I came deeply inside of her.

If you want to truly understand women – and yourself – start choking women during sex.

My guys friends universally claimed my preoccupation with choking was unnatural. They resisted. Every one who has tried choking admitted that he can never return to normal sex.

They are understanding that the most intense sex combines violence and sex – danger and play.

But as the guy who called me a “psycho, but not in a good way” will understand: Women can’t go back to normal sex, either.

Women’s number one sexual fantasy is rape. This is no surprise, as the neurocognitive processes responsible for violence are also responsible for sexual arousal.

Women desire a strong and fearless man – and that means a man who is unafraid of her beauty and seductiveness.

Men more so than anything have a desire to dominate. Women more so than anything have a desire to be dominated.

When a woman is pinned on her stomach with your hard cock inside of her, you will live Zarathustra’s theory of male and female happiness:

The happiness of man is: I will. The happiness of woman is: he wills. ‘Behold, just now the world became perfect!’—thus thinks every woman when she obeys out of entire love.

  • http://www.therulesrevisited.blogspot.com Andrew

    True.

  • http://rivelinoinspain.wordpress.com Rivelino

    brilliant.

    i strongly recommend:

    1. grabbing her hair from the base of her head, so that she can’t move her head without feeling pain.

    2. putting two fingers in her mouth — almost as if they were a gun — and making her suck on them.

    3. biting her back — during doggy — and her shoulders — during missionary.

    4. slapping her ass really hard — that’s an obvious one.

    5. lots and lots of dirty talk, but not just getting her to say the normal stuff like “your dick is so big, it fills me up” blah blah — that too, but on top of that, getting her to say much submissive stuff like, “i am your sex slave”, “i am your bitch”, “you are my master”, “please fuck me, i beg you” — that kind of thing.

    6. choking is something i just started to play around with, but i can see it being the most powerful tool of all.

  • http://deleted Castor Troy

    Funny story, actually. I just got back from a sojourn in Mexico and I was sleeping with a girl who was in to asphyxiation. To make a long story short, one night we were fucking and we both got way too in to it, and she passed out. I had like a three second window where I legitimately thought she was dead and panic swept over me thinking about how I had accidentally killed a girl. She came to after like three seconds and told me “I just came so hard, don’t stop fucking me.” It was a great orgasm for me after. This post is spot on.

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  • http://rivelinoinspain.wordpress.com Rivelino

    holy shit, that sounds like a really long three seconds.

    that also reminds me how someone — roissy? d&p? c&f? — recommended thatwe all film our fucks, just to protect ourselves against rape charges — or now, murder charges.

    • http://deleted Castor Troy

      Haha, I guess that’s true. This also made me think of another Roissy (or maybe Donlak) posting from a ways back about some girl who freaked out when a creepy beta tried to hit on her in a hotel elevator and went viral with it online. Roissy compared what did happen with the creepy beta vs what would have happened had it been a smoother alpha. in short, the girl wouldn’t have flipped and the whole thing would have been completely different,

      I think that sort of applies here. I would say that doing shit like this is only really advisable when the girl knows you are an alpha. Seeing as alphas are the ones having all the sex this sort of goes without saying but I remember having a conversation about rough sex with a beta friend of mine who is whipped by his ugly girlfriend a few months back and basically said the same thing Danger & Play said here about how much girls love it. In short, he tried something mundane like spanking her during sex and she told him if he ever did it again she would dump him. Shocking to me at the time, because of all the girls I’ve fucked (at least in the past few years) i’ve always been rough; choking, spanking, hair pulling etc and only one has ever told me to be more gentle. So I guess if the girl knows you’re an alpha do it but if you’re not be careful with this shit or you may end up in trouble. I think girls love stuff like this because it’s a dominance display showing who is in charge and essentially a raw example of the natural or of things between the sexes. Hence why it only really works for alphas.

      PS. As I was writing this the girl who passed out just messaged me over Facebook wishing me a merry Christmas and telling me how much she misses me fucking her. Weird.

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  • http://johnnyshornofplenty.wordpress.com/ johnnymilfquest

    I’ll never look at a Dolphin in the same way now.

    Every time I see one I’ll imagine a gang of them watching “The Accused” on DVD and getting excited at the point where Jodie Foster is on the pool table.

  • Anonymous

    As a woman, this post at first alarmed and disturbed me. Then I realised you had a point. Because I missed an important word when I first read the post.

    So now I agree with you. A woman will submit to and do almost anything for a man she TRUSTS. You describe Samantha’s eyes as trusting. That’s the key. You saw her eyes as trusting because she does trust you. Do a little test: ask anyone else who knows her to describe her eyes. They might say blue, big, round or whatever, but I guarantee you no-one else will use the word ‘trusting’.
    Are you trustworthy? Not to just anyone but to Samantha?

  • http://rivelinoinspain.wordpress.com Rivelino

    @castory troy

    “I would say that doing shit like this is only really advisable when the girl knows you are an alpha. Seeing as alphas are the ones having all the sex this sort of goes without saying but I remember having a conversation about rough sex with a beta friend of mine who is whipped by his ugly girlfriend a few months back and basically said the same thing Danger & Play said here about how much girls love it. In short, he tried something mundane like spanking her during sex and she told him if he ever did it again she would dump him. Shocking to me at the time, because of all the girls I’ve fucked (at least in the past few years) i’ve always been rough; choking, spanking, hair pulling etc and only one has ever told me to be more gentle. So I guess if the girl knows you’re an alpha do it but if you’re not be careful with this shit or you may end up in trouble. I think girls love stuff like this because it’s a dominance display showing who is in charge and essentially a raw example of the natural or of things between the sexes. Hence why it only really works for alphas.”

    excellent example and great point, i think you are absolutely correct.

    the more i think about it, the better this point becomes.

    my first gf, when i was a total beta, didn’t want me to fuck her rough.

    my second gf, when i had a flash of alpha, LOVED it when i fucked her rough. but the longer we were together, and the more beta i became to try and please her, the LESS she wanted me to fuck her rough.

    so there you go.

    i’m with you 100% on this.

    the rougher she lets you fuck her, the more alpha you are in her eyes.

    if she won’t let you fuck her rough, she hates your guts.

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  • z

    If it’s too complicated for you just go back to your beta game. The rest of us won’t mind.