After the commute, a lengthy workday, and a gym session, 14-16 hours of my day are gone. I thus don’t have much time to run game. Nevertheless, I have no trouble meeting women, and if I have any problem, it’s keeping track of all of them. To play hard after working hard, follow these rules:

1. Always look fresh. Since you can’t spend four hours at night playing a numbers game, each interaction with a woman must count. Also, women will hit you up.

I was walking to my gym, wearing cords, desert boots, and a bright Western shirt when I heard two 8′s making a ruckus behind me. I stopped, turned around, and smirked. One of them said, “It’s hard meeting a good man in [this town]!” She wanted me to approach, but fuck that noise: I don’t skip workouts for women.

Another day I was leaving the gym wearing a fatigue shirt, black jeans, and boots. A group of girls stopped me to ask for directions to Pinkberry. As I started to leave, one of them said, “It’d be better if you walked us there.”

If I had looked like a slob, neither of those interactions would have happened.

2. Go grocery shopping. Players who eat take-out every night are missing out on a great chance to meet cute girls. On my way home from the gym, I always stop by Trader Joe’s or Whole Foods for a bottle of wine, cottage cheese, or raw ingredients. It takes 5-10 minutes.

Trade Joe’s is full of college chicks and MILFs. Whole Foods is loaded with girls in Yoga pants. Roosh has an entire section in Day Bang on meeting women at the grocery store. Commenter and e-pal dc1000 is a master of closing these women. Maybe he’ll leave a comment or do a guest post.

If you’re not doing grocery shopping, you’re missing out on meeting dozens of cute girls and hot women each week.

3. Find a good stylist. You should be getting your hair cut every 3-4 weeks. Become Facebook friends with her. If you are cute (a great Facebook profile pic is essential), her friends will ask, “Who’s that?!”

My last stylist was engaged to a DJ who promoted monthly underground music events and raves. She and I were cool, and I always had the hook-up with her slutty friends. She and her fiance also had great drug connections.

If your current stylist isn’t getting you laid, find another one.

4. Run gym game. I’ll have an entire post devoted to gym game. Until it appears, here are some tips: Don’t wear ugly gym gear. Wear fresh Pumas (the Cabana Racer series is a good start), some bright shorts, and a tank top (if you have the body to pull it off).

Go to the stretching/foam rolling area. A chick will come near you. Throw some day game lines (again, you simply must buy Day Bang). E.g., if she’s not wearing headphones, say, “Do you like the music they play here?” If she is wearing head phones, gesture for her to take them off, “The music here is awful, isn’t it? My iPod battery is running low, so I had to turn mine off. I was reminded how awful the music they play here is.”

Also: Go to the gym at the same time each day. You’ll see the same girls. Often you’ll see these girls at the club. Then it’ll be on.

5. Run day game. If you have 20 minutes to grab lunch and be back at your computer, make the most of that time. There are going to be girls waiting in line as well as taking your order. Make your move.

6. Develop a routine. Get your coffee at the same place and the same time. If you look fresh, stay in shape, and are friendly, girls will remember you. They’ll give you a chance to open them within a week or two.

Use the credit card move: When you hand over your credit card, cover the card with part of your hand. Slightly (as if incidental and unintentional) touch their hand when handing your card over. If she reels back, don’t open. If she makes eye contact, she’s yours.

7. Don’t bang co-workers. Why work hard and then risk all of your hard work on a piece of ass? At work, I am the most serious guy ever when around girls. I don’t flirt. (Even so, the interns want to bone me.) If you risk your career on a piece of ass, then you are a beta male. An alpha male knows there are so many thousands of women out there to bang, that it’d be retarded to bang a co-worker.

8. Hire an expert. If you are working a lot, you should have some pocket money. Nordstrom will give you a personal shopper/stylist in exchange for your business. Take advantage of that. Since you must look good all the time, you can’t fuck around wearing Old Navy or ill-fitting or poorly-color-coordinated outfits. You must look fresh.

9. Work on your posture. If you work at an office for 10-12 hours a day, your posture will suffer. Bad posture is the same as losing 1-2 inches of height. Foam roll your back every day. Use this one.

10. Get back to work!

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Asking two players what game is, and like asking two Jews, you’ll get three opinions. I view game as systematizing the process of meeting women. “Game” is thus anything that has a better than random chance at getting me laid.

Most guys view meeting women as a random process. Go out, try a bunch of stuff, and maybe you’ll meet a girl. People even say that you shouldn’t look for love. “Love will happen when you least expect it.”

That’s all bullshit. I use a specific system to meet women. The first step in the system is the most important. If you took a journalism class, you’ll recognize the structure. Who, what, when, where, and why.

WHO: Who are the women do you want to date? I like young, broke girls who like to party and fuck.

WHAT: What activities do they engage in? They go to bars with dance floors, but not clubs. (Girls who go to clubs are club skanks, which while having some overlap, is a distinct demographic. See pictures of club skanks.)

WHEN: When are there out? Don’t limit yourself to Friday and Saturday. Some cities have special themed nights. The Cat Club in San Francisco has 80′s Night on Thursday, and I pulled 100% of the nights I went there. Sunday at the MatrixFillmore was often popping. It was always worth cruising by at 10:30 p.m. or so.

WHERE: Where do they go? I met my current girlfriend after asking a girl at a coffee shop whom I would have banged:

Hey, I just moved here and am looking for a place to hang out?
What kind of place?
Somewhere fun with a dance floor, but not Hollywood/Vegas/ douchey.
Actually, me and my girlfriends just started going to [the best place ever].

WHY: Why do you like the girls you like? I like younger girls because they have supple skin and a lot of energy. Young girls even smell differently than girls in their 30′s. Young girls will have an abortion if I impregnate them, although it’ll be my responsibility to pay for the abortion. They want to have fun with a guy like me until they are getting serious.

Younger girls are, counter-intuitively, less expensive than older girls. All women are entitled, but each girl’s entitlement nob is different. A career girl in her 30′s, even if attractive enough for you to talk to, is used to running up $150 bar tabs at the wine bar with her girlfriends. To a young girl, Pinkberry is a treat. Why spend more money on older pussy? Makes no sense.

Before you run game, you should work through the five w’s. It will tighten your game. You’ll waste less time going to bars where the girls you want aren’t even at. You can also learn to tailor your game specifically to the types of girls you want.

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I’ve long noted that the biggest haters of game are not women. Attractive women enjoy being gamed. Women obsessively watch reality television for their dose of drama. As a player, I give girls reality TV style drama in their real life.

No, the biggest threat to game is not women. It’s other men. Consider the average man.

The average man, if he is lucky, will have 3 or 4 lifetime sexual partners. The best woman he will ever bang is a 6, or if she’s really drunk and he’s really lucky, a 7.

The average man fails with women. He claims that women cannot be understood. This image is what the average man captioned, “A book on understanding women.” 

He will fail with women. Finally he will find a woman, as the average man says, “who would tolerate me.” He will call this woman “my better half.”

The average man’s wife will never look better than she did on her wedding day -day zero in her descent into obesity.

Five years later the average man will take his wife out to dinner. He’ll hand her blue box, hoping to buy a night of sex for the price of a tennis bracelet.

Then he sees me swagger into a bar. If I’m only with one girl, it’s a slow day. It’s more likely that there will be 2 or more girls with me, and each of these girls will be hotter than anything the average man could date rape.

The average man’s wife will start twirling her hair when she sees me. Her face may even flush. I had to get a new dentist after my dentist’s wife, a hygienist, couldn’t explain something to me. “I get tongue tied around you.”

When the average man’s wife looks at me, I’ll hold eye contact until she looks away. Her shoulders will face me. The average man doesn’t lift weights or train, so he won’t dare say anything to me.

The average man won’t ask for help. He won’t push him self away from the bread and butter on his dinner table, or perform dead lifts until he’s almost passing out.

What will the average man do?

He will attack game. He will call guys like me “pussy beggars.” He will create a legal system that enforces monogamy, because the average man is lucky to have one woman.

After the average man buys his wife fake tits that I will play with if she spends her child support money on yoga and Pilates classes, he’ll quit meeting women. He’ll say that he is a “man going his own way.”

Ten years later, the average man will walk into a lawyer’s office, seeking defense of child pornography charges, as the average man, lacking the will to conquer beautiful women, instead imposes his will on exploited children.

Nietzsche best described the average man in Thus Spoke Zarathustra, the most soul-cleansing book one can read. The average man is the spirit of gravity:

  He who one day teacheth men to fly will have shifted all
landmarks; to him will all landmarks themselves fly into the air;
the earth will he christen anew- as "the light body."
  The ostrich runneth faster than the fastest horse, but it also
thrusteth its head heavily into the heavy earth: thus is it with the
man who cannot yet fly.
  Heavy unto him are earth and life, and so willeth the spirit of
gravity! But he who would become light, and be a bird, must love
himself:- thus do I teach.

The biggest game haters are the average men, and so you should always avoid them.

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