Most relationships problems are based on a denial of instinct. A man’s instinct is to dominate, and a woman’s instinct is to please.
Consensual sex is an invention of civilization. In the animal world – and what is man but another animal – rape is prevalent. Even lovable dolphins commit rape. Thus, men evolved to dominate their women sexually, and women evolved to be dominated. As Zarathustra spoke:
The happiness of man is: I will. The happiness of woman is: he wills. ‘Behold, just now the world became perfect!’—thus thinks every woman when she obeys out of entire love. And women must obey and find a depth for her surface. Surface is the disposition of woman: a mobile, stormy film over shallow water. Man’s disposition, however, is deep; his river roars in subterranean caves: woman feels his strength but does not comprehend it.
See, Thus Spoke Zarathustra. Civilization has caused women to live in denial of their instincts, as women are taught that men exist to please women. Women have been told that they are special all of their lives, starting with their princess-creating fathers. They need only update a photo onto Facebook to have dozens of beta orbiters tell them they are special.
A man who lives in denial of his instincts, afraid to demand that his girl have sex with him, will have psychological problems like depression. A woman who lives in denial of her instincts, believing a man must please her, will suffer problems like anxiety.
If you are going to be in a relationship with a woman, you need to help her find her instincts. You and she will both be happier, and your relationship with prosper.
Sexually, you must be extremely dominant. I advocate choking, and my skeptical friends are all converts. “I thought you were psycho telling me to choke, but you got inside my head and I did it. She loved it!”
One girl (an 8.5-9) told my friend that she read about choking in Abnormal Psychology – to be natural as a man is to be abnormal in modern society – and always wanted to try it. No one had choked her before, as most men who fuck a hot woman feel lucky to even be with her, and don’t dominate her out of a fear of losing her.
This girl told my friend, ”I need to really feel like I am going to pass out, though.” Choking will be the subject of another post, as it’s the most important bedroom skill a man can learn.
You should not engage in excessive foreplay, as foreplay puts the emphasis on you pleasing her. In fact, if you are a man who wants to engage in foreplay, you are psychologically damaged by feminist culture.
As a healthy male who is in touch with his instincts, I cannot even orgasm with a woman on top. I am on top, often with her hands tied behind her back, smacking her ass while trying to split her in half with my cock.
When you are walking together, you should walk with her hand behind her back. I walk on the right side, and I’ll use my left hand to bend her elbow at 90 degrees, and hold her wrist with my hand. When I hug my girl, I often put both of her hands behind her back. (It looks as though she is wearing hand cuffs.)
You must also make your girl run errands for you, and to make reservations.
Feminists would hate my approach, and yet I make women happier. Women who are with me lack the anxiety of the typical American girl – who goes through life with anxiety and cognitive dissonance.
When with me, there is simply no anxiety, as there is no question that I am in charge, and that she exists to please me. Pleasing a man is what women evolved to, and once a woman gets into the habit of pleasing you, she will find herself as having never been happier.
Learn more: The Portable Nietzsche.