Most relationships problems are based on a denial of instinct. A man’s instinct is to dominate, and a woman’s instinct is to please.
Consensual sex is an invention of civilization. In the animal world – and what is man but another animal – rape is prevalent. Even lovable dolphins commit rape. Thus, men evolved to dominate their women sexually, and women evolved to be dominated. As Zarathustra spoke:
The happiness of man is: I will. The happiness of woman is: he wills. ‘Behold, just now the world became perfect!’—thus thinks every woman when she obeys out of entire love. And women must obey and find a depth for her surface. Surface is the disposition of woman: a mobile, stormy film over shallow water. Man’s disposition, however, is deep; his river roars in subterranean caves: woman feels his strength but does not comprehend it.
See, Thus Spoke Zarathustra. Civilization has caused women to live in denial of their instincts, as women are taught that men exist to please women. Women have been told that they are special all of their lives, starting with their princess-creating fathers. They need only update a photo onto Facebook to have dozens of beta orbiters tell them they are special.
A man who lives in denial of his instincts, afraid to demand that his girl have sex with him, will have psychological problems like depression. A woman who lives in denial of her instincts, believing a man must please her, will suffer problems like anxiety.
If you are going to be in a relationship with a woman, you need to help her find her instincts. You and she will both be happier, and your relationship with prosper.
Sexually, you must be extremely dominant. I advocate choking, and my skeptical friends are all converts. “I thought you were psycho telling me to choke, but you got inside my head and I did it. She loved it!”
One girl (an 8.5-9) told my friend that she read about choking in Abnormal Psychology – to be natural as a man is to be abnormal in modern society – and always wanted to try it. No one had choked her before, as most men who fuck a hot woman feel lucky to even be with her, and don’t dominate her out of a fear of losing her.
This girl told my friend, ”I need to really feel like I am going to pass out, though.” Choking will be the subject of another post, as it’s the most important bedroom skill a man can learn.
You should not engage in excessive foreplay, as foreplay puts the emphasis on you pleasing her. In fact, if you are a man who wants to engage in foreplay, you are psychologically damaged by feminist culture.
As a healthy male who is in touch with his instincts, I cannot even orgasm with a woman on top. I am on top, often with her hands tied behind her back, smacking her ass while trying to split her in half with my cock.
When you are walking together, you should walk with her hand behind her back. I walk on the right side, and I’ll use my left hand to bend her elbow at 90 degrees, and hold her wrist with my hand. When I hug my girl, I often put both of her hands behind her back. (It looks as though she is wearing hand cuffs.)
You must also make your girl run errands for you, and to make reservations.
Feminists would hate my approach, and yet I make women happier. Women who are with me lack the anxiety of the typical American girl – who goes through life with anxiety and cognitive dissonance.
When with me, there is simply no anxiety, as there is no question that I am in charge, and that she exists to please me. Pleasing a man is what women evolved to, and once a woman gets into the habit of pleasing you, she will find herself as having never been happier.
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so much of this resonates with me and my experiences. unfortunately, like many of us, i had to learn these the hard way at first by doing what was incorrect. in my failed marriage the depression and anxiety you describe was prevalent and the dissonance we both experienced ruined everything we had.
common story – drama, divorce, read the game, read more and more and more, synthesize, take things to the next level and find oneself..and you and I seem to have reached the same conclusions.
with my current gf, the choking has become such an intimate part of the experience that when we “make love” it means that my hands creep up and around her neck squeezing until I orgasm inside of her. our most tender sex seemingly always concludes with the choke, and thats because it represents our most connected experience.
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she never wants to be on top, doesn’t want me to go down on her and has told me she doesn’t even need to orgasm from our sex – she just needs to be dominated.
and while this is exactly what i want 95% of the time, and how i’ve trained her to be, there is that small part of the feminist corruption in my brain telling me to eat that pussy. the ravages of a bad marriage and a lifetime of brainwashing will hopefully be extinguished in short order – yet it is good to be aware of the influences around you.
The fact that I am struggling with the idea that foreplay is bad means I have some way to go. It seems like it can’t be true.
Re holding hands, something I’ve tried:
Put your hand around the base of her neck. Your palm rests against the center of her trapezius, your fingers over the crest of one side of her traps, thumb on the other. Easy to walk with, and feels pretty natural when you have an aggressive style. Also lets you guide her easily.
Another to consider: With her standing at your side on your right, take your right arm and grab her left upper arm. This one seems a little too prisoner like for my tastes, but haven’t tried it yet.
i,m dating a mexican girl. She will do everything to please me. The exact opposite of western girls.
I love it, feeling like a man. And she is so feminine, caring and easy to be with… yummy.
Sweet dreams are made of this
Who am I to disagree?
I travel the world
And the seven seas
Everybody’s looking for something
Some of them want to use you
Some of them want to get used by you
Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abused
Sweet dreams are made of this
Who am I to disagree?
I travel the world
And the seven seas
Everybody’s looking for something
interesting you quote Nietsche…too bad he was a virgin.
The leading theory of his cause of death is syphilis
“As a healthy male who is in touch with his instincts, I cannot even orgasm with a woman on top. I am on top, often with her hands tied behind her back, smacking her ass while trying to split her in half with my cock.”
I don’t know if this has to do with instincts, but it’s sure less pleasurable for her to be on top than it is for me to be on top.
I like to throw girls around while I fuck them. I like to pick them by their ass and drive them down onto my shaft while telling them to hold for their life.
women’s happiness ain’t shit in front of civilization. what you say is of course true, biologically, but civilization comes first. always and without cavil. artificial? so what? just do it. as far as choking, i’ve done it, it provides a momentary thrill but you may feel like an idiot afterwards, if you are a smart man that is. do we need even more silliness at this point in our decline?
I do like choking, if I’m in to them.
But I love when they’re on top. Something about the boobs bouncing.
Not being able to orgasm from that sounds like a psychological problem. I assume you were exaggerating?
yeah, i like that too. if they are flat-chested i don’t even bother putting them on top. choking just makes me feel silly. i feel like i am on their level.
“I cannot even orgasm with a woman on top”
I’m glad I’m not the only one.
Good post. A woman is to be made into the mans personal servant. It is to be explained to her that her job is to make the man happy.
It is the mans job to train the woman to do her job.
excellent post.
I’m waiting for that post on choking you promised.