I’m not sure how others use the term “lifestyle game,” and I don’t really care. To me, lifestyle game means creating a life for yourself that you allow worthy girls into. That is, you don’t pretend to be someone else in order to meet a girl. Instead, you have an actual sense of self, and a well-defined lifestyle, that you allow suitable women to share with you.

I’ll give you a recent example.

My friend was digging a chick. The only debate is whether she’s an 8.5 or 9. Whatever the case, this is the kind of girl other men obsess over.

This chick is now totally in love with my boy. She experienced the lifestyle, and now she doesn’t want to leave. In fact, she’s terrified of being removed from the lifestyle.

On Friday she was fed grilled rib eye, artichokes (steamed then grilled), steamed vegetables, and mochi. She drank complex wine. We went out to a cool club, had some bottles of vodka, and woke up. Then we had an elegant brunch. Afterwards we strolled through the city, attending a street fair. Later we stopped for espresso.

We did nothing out of the ordinary for this new girl. Whether or not she came over, we’d have grilled thick cuts of prime steak. We’d have gone out to a cool club. We’d have had brunch, and we’d have done some sort of cool activity. Nothing changed for her.

Now, look at how the game changes. One, there’s no way to screw up your game, since you’re not running game. You are simply doing what you always do. Your girl is coming over? Cool, I’ll make an extra plate.

Second, you create a lifestyle so awesome that a woman doesn’t want to leave it. If you’re a man who is in shape, likes to go out once a week, and drinks wine and eats good food, you’re going to find a lot of women willing to audition.

Third, you always have the lifestyle. Whether or not a chick comes over on Friday, I’m grilling steak and asparagus. I’ll be opening a bottle of wine. When your lifestyle as a man is awesome, you often view women as an unwelcome intrusion. Do I even want to invite a girl over?

You become extremely picky, which women immediately sense. Often when I go out, I think, “All of these women are boring. I don’t want to share my steaks and wine with them. Can I imagine them on the couch, talking to my roommate? They will bore him, and they may even steal some art work. I’m not going to even talk to them.” Suddenly women are asking me why I’m “not having a good time.” They sense my superiority complex, and are horny to find out what’s behind it.

Fourth, what do you suppose it does for the girl’s princess complex shes realizes that she is walking into your lifestyle? We don’t roll out the red carpet for them. We roll it out for ourselves. If she’s lucky, she gets to walk down it with us.

Once you create the best version of yourself, you’ll find yourself rejecting more women than ever.

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I don’t read many game blogs, as they are at the lower levels of consciousness. I don’t say this as a way to hate, as being at a lower level is necessary if one is to reach higher levels. I was once at a lower level, too.

How is this lower level manifested? It’s manifested in the anger stages under the Kübler-Ross/The Five Stages of Grief model.

Denial is where 90% of American men are. These are the beta males who deny the truth of women. When they are rejected and abused by American women, the beta makes excuses. “She only behaved that way because of …” An alpha male never makes excuses for his girls’ misbehavior, as denial is a trait of betas.

Anger is where 90% of game bloggers are. CAN YOU BELIEVE HOW FAT AND OUT OF TOUCH THESE AMERICAN WOMEN ARE?! Once guys leave the denial phase, they are outraged at the abuse women expect these men to take. The talk about unfairness and double standards. Instead of coolly exploiting the system, they vent and rage.

Bargaining is a level of consciousness few men reach, and yet it’s not a high level of spirituality. The “bargaining man” agrees that women are problematic, but claims they will change if he only runs strong relationship game. “My game is tight, so my girl won’t pull the stunts she pulls on other guys.” He is always making deals with women rather than showing them the door.

Depression hits when a man realizes that everything he learned about women was a lie. Once you understand women, it becomes harder to deal with them. Parents avoid petulant children, and a high-level man starts avoiding the women-children that comprise American females.  The “depressed man” asks: Why bother?

Acceptance is where a man accepts women as they are, but on his own terms. The “accepting man” knows American women are incorrigible, while also realizing he himself enjoys sex and occasional female companionship. He runs game to get what he wants out of women, but does not believe he will change any given woman. He lives a life of freedom.

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Obese bride demands that husband wash her feet while she drinks a can of full-calorie Old Milwaukee:

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A good friend of mine had severe marital problems, such that I needed to intervene to either save or desroy his marriage. The root of his problem illustrates why marriage is a fool hearty endeavor for the modern American man.

My friend was told that he didn’t love his family. How was his wife so sure of this? Well, he worked too much.

Let me tell you about my friend’s job. He drives several-hundred miles a week teaching fat, white, men how to use ad interface software. Do you think my friend enjoys spending hours each day talking to these people?

Like a lot of men, he’s not especially fond of his job. He works so that his wife doesn’t have to. His wife led the life of a woman of leisure, free to browse Facebook all day, attend yoga, and have enough money left over to eat out regularly. He works so his children don’t have to live in poverty. He works, in other words, because he loves his family.

Yet no amount of reason could reach this woman. (It took his filing for divorce, thus imposing the realization on her that she would be giving up a life of leisure, to keep his family together.)

I’m not sure where women got it in their heads that men love working 12 hours a day. Some do, no doubt, but most men have as much desire for work-life balance as a woman has. Yet as primary bread winners, men have no choice: If they love their families, they will work.

Women, however, have become insufferably entitled. Instead of feeling gratitude that a man slaves away to support his famil, women have come to expect it. Of course a man should slave away. And when he comes home, he should then give whatever is left of his soul to a needy wife.

A man is expected to have nothing left for himself. It all belongs to his employer, and his wife. And if he doesn’t do what his wife says, the rest of his soul will belong to the state.

Incidentally, if my friend had worked less hard, and ended up as a retail clerk at Home Depot, his wife would have left him, too. Because, as we all know, a real man supports his family.

It is simply impossible to keep a modern American woman happy for any length of time. Unless you want to be bitched at constantly, do not get married.

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Look, unless you have facial disfigurement, third-degree burns, or something really screwed up, then you are a complete loser for not doing everything possible to become good looking. Going to the gym, eating healthy foods, applying sunscreen in the morning and before later sun exposure, and applying a moisturizer before bed will increase your attractiveness by 20%.

Here are ten goods reasons why being good looking is good for your health, wealth, and freedom.

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Why don’t I do PUA type stuff? This video illustrates why. (Fast forward to 2:28.) In it, you can see the following occur: Mystery is opened by a woman. She’s decent, but not great. All he needs to do is not fuck it up with her, and he’ll bang her. Or he can use her to trade up to another girl.

Indeed, later (at 6:05), an more attractive woman hits on him. All he needs to do is not fuck it up.

Yet he rambles on, focusing on PUA tactics than actually meeting women. I’ve long said that much of Myster’s success is due to his height, good looks, and overall magician’s look. This video doesn’t disprove my view (although the comments superimposed on the film are hateful and were no doubt added by a loser):

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A friend e-mailed me a question:

so, how much do you tell your woman about what you read? how much do you tell her about game? i got books, people see them. i read a lot, i like to talk about it. i get a little rush when i see something happen in real life that i’ve read about.

so how much do you tell your girl?

‘damn it bitch, quit shit testing me with that bull’

My current girl reads this blog, and I’ve told her to follow Roosh on Twitter, as well as read Roissy’s archives.

Women cannot control their emotions. It is up to a man to enforce his will on a girl. Girls can, however, develop a limited sense of self-awareness. My girl often says, “I’m being a stupid girl now, aren’t I?”

Also, when she pulls bullshit, it makes the blog. “Why don’t you write about the nice things I do,” she wonders. I tell her it’s because being nice to her will only sabotage our relationship. She understands – to a point, anyway.

If you want your relationship with your girl to work, a little bit of meta-knowledge is good for them. They start to understand why you are being “mean” to them. They might not like the “mistreatment,” but they realize it’s necessary if the relationship is going to continue.

You can’t wholly reason with a woman, although you can teach them the root of their bad behavior. “The reason you’re being bitchy today is because I made the mistake of treating you like an equal human being.”

They also start understanding why you punish them. If my girl misbehaves, I will call her another girl’s name during sex. She doesn’t get to hear me address her by her proper name until she acts properly. Also, I’ll tell her which of her friends I’m going to fuck when we break up.

If you’re a guy whose girl is acting up, make her read some game sites. If they piss her off, dump her.

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Although you often read of the dangers women face from “date rape,” in truth, men are just as likely to be falsely accused of rape as women are to be actually raped. Not even the most feminist criminal defense lawyer will deny what I’m about to tell you:

Fifty-percent of date rape cases are outright false.

There is also extensive data corroborating what every criminal defense lawyer already knows, and thus men must take proactive steps to avoid catching a case.

Film it. Four Hofstra college students were accused of gang-raping a fellow student. They were thrown into jail, and held without bail. Had they gone to trial, they’d have been convicted.

Yet the men were released from prison, after one of the defendant’s lawyers produced a cell phone video of the encounter, proving it was consensual.

Even lawyers need to beware of false rape accusations. A San Francisco lawyer was charged with raping three women, and held effectively without bond. Luckily he had videotaped sexual encounters with two of the women, and most charges were dismissed against him.

Unfortunately, he did not videotape his sexual encounter with the third accuser, and thus still faces trial.

Some will ask about the legality of secretly recording sexual encounters. Cap We Tape provides an excellent overview of the legal landscape. One must highlight that lawyer in California illegally recorded his sexual encounters. Breaking the law saved his life.

Get confirmatory texts. It may go against a “PUA’s” advice to do this, but I am worried about keeping you out of prison.

After banging a girl for the first time, send her a text message, telling her how much fun you had with her. After all, a rapist wouldn’t send an e-mail the next day, as he’d be afraid of the law, or ashamed of his actions. By sending a text, you are showing that you’re neither afraid nor ashamed of what happened the night before.

Sometimes you should take the whore out to breakfast. If you’re seen in public the morning after, she’s going to have a horrible time having you prosecuted for rape.

Have her put on the condom. This will ensure that her fingerprints are on the condom, which is evidence of consent. Unless you can’t save your condoms in a glass slide, ala Dexter, this is only short-term protection. Even if you’ve thrown the condom away, you can scare the shit out of her by claiming you still have it.

If she mentions “buyer’s remorse,” take her out for dinner, and do not bang her. Imagine a girl calls you, telling you she feels “weird” about what happened. Beware. This girl could have Borderline Personality Disorder, and she may be prepared to accuse you of rape.

Take her out in public. Show her a nice time. Have her smiling. Then go home – alone.

Never “be nice” if she expresses buyer’s remorse. If a chick calls you the next day, keep in mind she may be recording the conversation, or the police may be monitoring it.

Most Special Victim’s Unit prosecutors and investigators will use this ploy on you:

Girl calls the next day, telling you that what happened last night was “wrong.” She’ll demand an apology. You apologize. This apology is used as proof you raped her, even if she never directly claims you raped her.

She may instead say she felt “rushed” or “pressured.” These are red flags. Do not apologize. Instead, say,

Well, we’re both adults. It’s sad we live in such a Puritanical society that hates sex. Last night was a great time, though, and I can’t wait to see you again.

If the police call, don’t answer. Did you know that the police can lie to you? Did you know that the police will lie about what you tell them? Police will claim that you confessed to rape, even when you denied it to them.

NEVER TALK TO THE POLICE.

It’s a dangerous world out there, guys. You should be just as vigilant in avoiding false rape accusations as you are in getting laid.

Protect yourself at all times, and you should avoid a false rape case.

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Jeremy Pivens was 28 years old in this episode of Seinfeld In the latest episode of Entourage, he was 44. Which version of Pivens pulls more ass?

Here’s Pivens after a makeover:

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